This is not an uncommon problem but one that can definitely be overcome with a little reassurance and by taking baby steps.
First of all let's talk about why it is so important to convince him to change his mind. Experimenting in the bedroom is an essential part of healthy sex life particularly for couples in long-term relationships. A harsh as it sounds, no matter how fun something is if it stays the same day in day out, year in year out you will lose some of the enjoyment. Experimenting together keeps things fresh, brings you closer and ignites that spark of excitement that can fade after many years together.

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I was reading a discussion the other day on a forum about “who has been to one of those parties?” and the variety of responses surprised me. Some would “rather sit at home and watch the grass grow” whilst some thought “it was THE BEST fun ever. Just a crack up. I loved it.” One lady found the whole idea “tacky and hideous” aside from the fact that she has clearly never been to an April Nites party, it got me thinking about just why I think women should embrace the whole 'sex toy party' notion. In my opinion a sex toy party is so much more than“women sitting around like giggly schoolgirls playing 'erotic themed' games and passing around dildos”,