I was reading a discussion the other day on a forum about “who has been to one of those parties?” and the variety of responses surprised me. Some would “rather sit at home and watch the grass grow” whilst some thought “it was THE BEST fun ever. Just a crack up. I loved it.” One lady found the whole idea “tacky and hideous” aside from the fact that she has clearly never been to an April Nites party, it got me thinking about just why I think women should embrace the whole 'sex toy party' notion. In my opinion a sex toy party is so much more than“women sitting around like giggly schoolgirls playing 'erotic themed' games and passing around dildos”, it is the opportunity to let our hair down and be silly if we want, it is the opportunity to share aspects of our lives, i.e. our sex lives that we are taught we must keep quiet, it is the opportunity to learn that we are not the only ones who feel a certain way and in fact what we are going through is normal. And most importantly it is the opportunity to find new ways of achieving pleasure. Out with the archaic view that women should not enjoy sex and in with a new wave of freedom for women. There you go I said it “women enjoy sex just as much as men and if they don't they should!” The cat is out of the bag!